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Rural documentary: Mistaking gratitude for love, the life of this "old husband and young wife" is destined to be difficult to last

author:Retired veteran cadres 67

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This is a true story that happened in our village.

Six years ago, Lao Lin, who was in his fifties, brought back a young girl, who looked like she was in her early twenties.

At first, everyone thought it was a relative of his family, but they didn't expect it to be brought back to live with themselves.

Rural documentary: Mistaking gratitude for love, the life of this "old husband and young wife" is destined to be difficult to last

For a while, everyone was discussing, and some people said that Lao Lin had a bad conscience, he was so much older than others, and he could be someone's father. Some people also say that Lao Lin can speak with that mouth, and he coaxed people somehow. A few bachelors in the village often said enviously: "When did we have this luck to meet such a good thing!" ”

Lao Lin's conditions make it hard for me to believe that this girl will voluntarily live with him. If you don't believe me, you will feel incredible.

Lao Lin's mother gave birth to five daughters in a row, and she gave birth to him at the age of 38. It was not easy to give birth to a son, and the parents thought to themselves that they must give him a good name. So, his father found a teacher at the school to name him Tianyou, hoping that he would be blessed by God in the future, and his life would be safe and smooth.

He has become the pearl of his parents, and his sisters do all the work, and leave everything delicious to him. The doting of his parents made him develop a selfish and lazy character.

When their parents were alive, their family was well-off, and they had several daughters to help, and their lives were also very prosperous, and five blue brick houses were built early in the morning.

Therefore, when he became an adult, he also had a lot of relatives, and finally he married a daughter-in-law who looked thoughtful, and this woman also knew the craft of cutting. Later, the woman gave birth to a son for him, and then the two divorced due to emotional discord. Originally, the son was sentenced to his father, but the son thought he was lazy and followed his mother to live in the city.

After the divorce, he had nothing to do at home all day. Three meals a day, his old mother cooks for him. In this way, he spent many years at home in a state of confusion until his mother died.

After the death of the old mother, several sisters persuaded him to go out and break in, they said, they all say that the money outside is easy to make, and women are easy to receive, you go out and meet a suitable one, and start a family, isn't it good.

As the saying goes, "Listen to people's advice and eat well". Lao Lin was very obedient this time, and packed his luggage and went to Guangzhou within a few days.

Rural documentary: Mistaking gratitude for love, the life of this "old husband and young wife" is destined to be difficult to last

After going to Guangzhou, I found a factory as a security guard, the factory was in charge of food and housing, and the work was not heavy, just look at the gate, Lao Lin was also quite satisfied.

Let's not talk about Lao Lin in advance, let's talk about Huang Yingying.

Lao Lin brought her home, and everyone was curious, how did they meet? As the days passed, everyone became familiar with each other, and Yingying told us about her past.

When Huang Yingying was 12 years old, her mother fell ill and died. In order to provide for her education, her father needs to go out to work to earn money. In desperation, he fostered her in his sister's house.

He knew that his brother-in-law was a bad talker, and in order to avoid his sister's embarrassment, he promised to send his sister 300 yuan for living expenses at the end of each month.

Seeing that there was money, my uncle happily agreed.

But life at my aunt's house was not easy.

My aunt's family has three children, two boys and one girl. They are all older than Huang Yingying.

My aunt's family lives in a relatively poor place, and the place where they live is also very small, and the family of six lives in three rooms.

There are three rooms, the middle one is the living room, and the two wings on either side are the bedrooms. The two brothers lived in a room with their grandfather, and in the room of their aunt and uncle, they built another bed for the two girls.

For Huang Yingying's arrival, his cousins and cousins did not welcome it. My uncle has also said more than once that there is another one in the family who eats white rice. My aunt sometimes defends the child a few words, saying that people give them living expenses, but what's the use of saying this? In exchange for not the uncle's merciless insults?

People are often like this, when they take other people's things, they don't have too much, and when they give out, they feel distressed like pumping their own blood.

I remember one time, for my cousin's birthday, my aunt made braised pork. The braised pork is the size of a mahjong block, jujube red, and the oil is shiny. At that time, the family was poor, and it took a long time to eat a meal of meat. Seeing this plate of braised pork on the table, the color, the fragrance, how tempting it looks!

Rural documentary: Mistaking gratitude for love, the life of this "old husband and young wife" is destined to be difficult to last

The brothers and sisters couldn't help it, and secretly pinched a piece and stuffed it into their mouths. Huang Yingying looked at the plate of meat, swallowed her saliva, she picked up the bowl, and turned around to serve the meal to each family member.

After the meal was served, the whole family sat together and started eating. The children are like starting a competition, you and I are putting meat in their rice bowls one by one. Yingying picked up the chopsticks and hesitantly reached for the plate.

As soon as I got a piece of meat, before the chopsticks were recycled, my cousin snatched it up, he said, you grow so fat, you still eat meat, and if you eat meat, you will become a pig. Haha, let's see who dares to marry you in the future!

The humiliation of her cousin made Huang Yingying feel embarrassed, she used chopsticks to pull the white rice in the bowl, and the tears in her eyes returned to her heart.

My aunt couldn't bear it, so she took another piece and put it in her bowl. She said, eat, don't be embarrassed, your dad sent money every month, you should eat.

She knew that this was not just for her, but for everyone at the dinner table.

When my uncle saw her talking about the food money again, he also got angry and said, "If you send the food money, then you will only eat, and if you want to eat meat and vegetables, you have to send it!" That's it, I haven't asked her for the accommodation fee yet! ”

My aunt was so angry that she trembled, but for such an unreasonable person, she really didn't want to defend with him.

Huang Yingying listened to their quarrel, she didn't want to embarrass her aunt, so she put down her rice bowl, picked up the bamboo basket, picked up the sickle, and went to mow the grass for the pigs.

The noon sun is shining warmly on the earth, and the cicadas are singing one after another, which seems to tell the grievances in their hearts. She mowed the grass hard, once, twice, and finally she could not stop her sadness, and sat on the ridge and cried sadly.

The life under the fence made the young Huang Yingying taste the warmth and coldness of the world. She longs for her father to come back as soon as possible and to give her love and companionship.

She stood at the entrance of the village and looked forward to it, looking at it, day by day, month by month, year by year. Three years have passed. But what I was waiting for was not the return of my father, but the news of my father's disappearance.

Rural documentary: Mistaking gratitude for love, the life of this "old husband and young wife" is destined to be difficult to last

My father's disappearance was just speculation, as he hadn't sent money or called his aunt for months.

My uncle can't tolerate it at all, he gets angry every day, and he doesn't like anything.

Her father did not send money, Yingying could no longer go to school, and she dropped out of school before she was 16 years old. Later, she followed a woman from the same village out to work, and by the way, she went to the place where her father used to work, and tried to find her father.

In the vast sea of people, it is so difficult to find someone. After searching for half a month, the money that my aunt secretly gave me when I left was almost gone, so I could only put it down temporarily.

Due to his young age, many factories did not dare to ask for it. In desperation, she worked as a waitress in a restaurant. Lao Lin often went to that restaurant to eat, and became familiar with her as soon as he came and went.

Lao Lin takes good care of her and often buys snacks and small gifts for her. Alone in a foreign land, Yingying is often lonely, and Lao Lin's care makes her slowly feel the warmth of home. She gradually became dependent on him, and she thought it was love. So they were together.

In the blink of an eye, Yingying has been with us for several years. I don't know who they are, but she has never been pregnant. The two of them have not been licensed, in order to let her live here with peace of mind, the lazy Lao Lin has also become diligent, and often changes ways to make food for her.

Lao Lin's sisters also came from time to time, and every time they came, they took a lot of things in large bags, and they said that they couldn't cut off Yingying's food, and let her stay here to be a companion with her younger brother, and they were relieved.

Later, when Yingying was working in a supermarket, she met a young man who was delivering goods, and they secretly got along.

Not long ago, I heard that Yingying had stolen away, and she didn't take her clothes or anything.

Lao Lin said that if she told me that she was leaving, I would not stop her, and I would give her a little money. If she's not happy over there, she can come back at any time, I'll wait for her.

Rural documentary: Mistaking gratitude for love, the life of this "old husband and young wife" is destined to be difficult to last

I think Lao Lin probably can't wait for Yingying to come back.

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